I’ve been interested in this woman for a long time, but I’m not sure that she feels the same way. We hang out all the time, and she always seems to laugh at my jokes and find excuses to spend time alone with me. I don’t want to screw things up and make it awkward between us though. How can I tell whether she likes me or not?
Ramon, this is something that almost no men know about, and it’s going to blow your mind. Are you ready?
There’s actually a secret sign that women like you. They have zero control over it, and if she likes you, you’re going to be able to notice it, if you’re looking for it.
I’m telling you, once you know what to look for, it’s trivially easy to figure out if a woman is interested in you.
It’s so simple. When you’re with a woman and you want to find out whether she likes you, pay close attention to the inside of her left eye, right by her nose. You’ll actually see a tiny mouth open and start forming words!
The tiny mouth-eye will be whispering “I like you, I like you”! All you have to do is just watch for it very carefully! If you see her tiny mouth-eye, it means she likes you!
Or it means you’re schizophrenic. Or that you’re under the influence of some very powerful psychotropic drugs. Because that’s some bullsh*t.
If you’re looking for signs that she likes you, you’ve already f*cked up. Why?
If you’re putting her behavior under a microscope and looking out for signs that she’s interested in you, you’ve taken yourself out of the moment with her. Instead of having fun with her and being present, you’re examining her behavior and trying to figure out whether she likes you or not. That’s not attractive behavior, Ramon.
Women want a guy who’s able to be 100% in the moment with her. They want to be with someone who’s relaxed, who’s comfortable, and who’s having fun. They want a guy with no ulterior motives, no agenda about them, and no insecurity.
If you’re constantly looking for signs that she likes you, it reveals your insecurity. It says that you’re not sure if she would like a guy like you, and that you constantly need to be reassured that she’s interested in you.
That’s needy behavior. That’s going to turn her off.
She doesn’t want to have to act a certain way in order for you to be happy or in a good mood. She just wants to have fun hanging out with you!
So drop looking for ‘signs’ from her. Focus your energy on being in a good mood while you’re around her. that’s what’s going to make her attracted to you.
Think about it this way: if you’re hanging out with her all the time, and she laughs at your jokes, and wants to spend time alone with you, then those are all already great signs! She enjoys spending time with you, dude! That’s what you want!
Women want to date guys that they like spending time with. They want to f*ck guys that they like spending time with. They want to be around guys that make them feel good.
So keep doing what you’re doing. If you’re attracted to her, don’t hide your attraction. Own it. It’s nothing shameful or embarrassing, you think she’s hot, you like hanging out with her, and you want something more than a friendship with her. No woman is going to sense that and think “what a creep”.
It’s only creepy behavior if you hide it.
She already likes hanging out with you, and you already feel comfortable around her. Your work is like 99% done. Just keep having fun with her and being in a good mood around her, and don’t try to hide your attraction for her. Then you’re home free.
Anyone got any tips for Ramon? Has anyone else seen women’s mouth-eyes? Leave ’em below.