I’ve been dating my girlfriend for a year and a half now, but I’m starting to worry that things are winding down. We don’t spend as much time together anymore and it feels like things are falling apart. How can I tell if our relationship is over?
Lars, I feel you. It sucks when it seems that a relationship is coming to an end, especially if you’ve been with that person for a long time.
So here are some signs that your relationship might be over to look out for.
If you lived together before, are you still living together? If she wakes up and you’re in her house taking a shit, is she going to freak out or go get breakfast?
It’s important to be honest with yourself about the answer to that question.
Is she currently fucking anyone else? I mean currently, as in right now. If you’re reading this on a laptop, and you look over and another guy is balls deep inside her, that’s a bad sign.
It probably means that you’re not dating anymore. I know it’s hard to hear, and it might be hard to accept that something as innocuous as another guy plowing your girlfriend could mean your relationship is over, but the truth is hard to hear sometimes.