When you think about a future with her, how does it make you feel?
This is a bit of a loaded question. It’s natural to feel a bit nervous about committing to someone. A little bit of anxiety is ok.
But if you feel a massive pit in your stomach that says “uh oh” whenever you think about a real future with this woman… then that’s a problem. That’s your instincts telling you that you might not be on the right path.
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Follow your instincts. They’re a pretty f*cking good guide.
Do you enjoy spending time with her?
I mean really enjoy it. Not just the sex, or the fact that you “have a girlfriend”, I mean do you actually enjoy the time you spend with her? If you do, great! You should probably stick with it. If you like spending time with someone even after 9 months then that says a lot.
If you don’t like spending time with her anymore, then why are you with her?
Again, these are only a few guidelines. You’re going to have to make your own decision on this one, and it’s going to have to come from inside you. I can’t give you the answer like I give your girlfriend my dick. It just doesn’t work that way.