I met a woman at a bar and we both had a great time. We had such a good time that we wound up at my house at the end of the date and had really good sex. I like this woman, but I’m worried about taking things further with her. Is it worth it to date the kind of woman that has one night stands?
Well Ray, let’s take a close inspection of the question you just asked.
“I hit it off enough with a woman to sleep with her on the first night. I like her, but I don’t want to date the kind of person that sleeps with a stranger on the first night. What should I do?”
A less astute person than myself should have no problem pointing out the glaring inconsistency in your question.
That is: if you don’t want to date the kind of person who sleeps with you on the first night, then why should you expect anyone to want to date you, being that you slept with her on the first night also?
aha! Shoe’s on the other foot now, isn’t it?!
Basically, the question I have for you Ray is, how can you live with being such a hypocritical, despicable cunt?
If you’re willing to sleep with her on the first night, then how is her decision to sleep with you any different? Why is it ok for you to sleep with her when you barely know her, but it’s “slutty” and unacceptable for her to sleep with you?
Don’t you want more women to sleep with you, Ray? Don’t you want to encourage this type of behavior, instead of discouraging it?
Because that’s what you’re doing. Every time you ask in public whether it’s ok to date a one night stand, or put a woman down for sleeping with you on the first night directly or indirectly, you’re shaming that type of behavior and making it less likely that women feel comfortable doing it.
What you’re doing is sexually shaming women for something that you have no problem with doing, and that’s hypocritical, f*cked up, and despicable behavior.
And don’t even bother trying to come back at me with, “Well, it’s different for men and women in terms of sleeping with people,” because a bigger load of horsesh*t these ears have never heard.
Men are people. Women are people. They are exactly the f*cking same, both in terms of personhood as well as what kinds of sexual behavior are acceptable.
If you think it’s totally fine for a man to go out and have a one night stand with a woman (as you clearly do, because you just f*cking did it), it means that you should think it’s totally fine for a woman to engage in the same behavior. If you don’t, that makes you a f*cking hypocrite.
So, to get back to your comically misguided question, yes, it’s totally f*cking fine for you to date a woman you had a one night stand with. If you’re comfortable with sleeping with someone new on the first night, it would be totally hypocritical of you to not be comfortable with a woman doing the same thing.
If you like her, and she likes you, sure, why the f*ck not try dating her? She’ll probably be able to divine your mongoloid attitudes towards women after a few dates or so and rightfully move on to someone better, but hey, maybe that will wake your ass up to change your opinions.
Or you could keep being a hypocritical trashy f*ck. Your choice.
Got any good one night stand stories? Got advice for Ray? Leave ’em below.
And as always, if you’ve got any questions, send ’em here and I’ll answer them with a maximum amount of condescension and insults.