The Real Reasons She Didn’t Text You Back

I met this girl at a bbq last week and we hit it off. We were joking around, we were laughing and everything seemed good. So I sent her a text, no response…I figured everything was fine…but still, a few days later and no text…should I send her a text or is that going to seem needy?

-Jeff R.

Jeff wants to know why a woman he met didn’t text him back. Jeff, I’m not a mind reader. I don’t know the exact reason in her mind why she hasn’t texted you back yet.

I do know what makes women want to text you back though.

Tell me if this sounds familiar:

So you’re out, you meet a girl, you think she’s hot, you’re attracted to her, and then score! You get her phone number!

more: Why Did She Lose Interest In Me?

You don’t want to scare her off, so you send her a text. Something nice and light, simple, start a conversation and you’re off to the races. You can already see how she’ll text you back, you’ll go on a date, it’ll be awesome, she’ll come back to your place and everything will be sweet.

Except she doesn’t text back right away.

ok, no big deal, she’s probably busy, you’ve got time, you can wait.